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May the Force Be With You: What To Do If You Have Negative People and Events in Your Life?
By FamilyAndRelationships.com
Sep 25, 2009, 11:10
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I am the type of person who used to have a very negative attitude to most aspects of life. I am not alone in thinking this way as most of the people I meet seem to be constantly moaning about different things and basically feeling sorry for themselves. So, what exactly are the reasons and benefits of having a more positive outlook on life.
About ten years ago I decided that I needed to have a change of approach. I wanted to be a happy and care-free person and was fed up of always being stressed and worrying about the future. To achieve this I started to read many self-help, confidence type books and websites.
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There was a regular message which came from this literature which was to think more positive and to believe in your ability to succeed in whatever you attempt to do.
This is easy to write or say, but in reality it is difficult to implement in practice.
Of course I tried but in truth I did not really believe in the whole practice. I would go into a task thinking, I can do this, but it would still end up in failure.
I could not understand what was going wrong so I therefore went back to the books to try to learn more. There was a new and even more important message which I had missed the first time around. What I had to do was to take a positive out of whatever happens to me, even if this is learning from my failings.
As an example of taking a positive from whatever happens in life, is something which happened in my family recently. My nanny has recently passed away, she was eighty-eight. I used to visit her at least once a week at the flat where she lived. She was a very honest person and always talked very openly to me. Around two months before she died she told me that she was very tired and that she no longer wanted to be on this planet.
I was quite shocked by her admission and asked her what was wrong. She stated that she had nothing to look forward to and that she did not want to reach a point where she could no longer bath herself etc. She continued that she hoped that I would not grieve for to long when she did die and that she wanted me to be happy for her.
This was quite upsetting for me to hear but at least she was being honest of course. Two months later my dad phoned me and told me that my nanny had passed away in the night.
I was obviously upset and the thought of never being able to see her again hit me hard. I then thought about what she had said and looked up to the sky and gave my nan a smile and a message, I love you.
I thought positive about the whole event and was actually happy for her. I hope that one day we will meet again.
This power and force exists in your life right now; whether you understand it or not, whether you know it or not, and whether you like it or not.
Until you learn to use this power in a deliberate way, most of the time you are not aware that you are attracting into your life MORE of whatever you are giving your focus, attention, and energy to.
This is referred to as non-deliberate attraction. It can be described in a 4-step cycle:
Step 1: I observe what I'm attracting in any area of my life.
Step 2: While observing what I'm attracting, I'm offering a corresponding vibration, whether negative or positive.
Step 3: The force is always checking in to see what my vibration is and matches it obediently, whether wanted or unwanted.
Step 4: As the force responds to my vibration, I receive or manifest into my life, more of what I was observing in the first place.
Then, the cycle begins at Step 1 and repeats itself over and over again. Here's how the cycle may be working in your life right now.
You may notice that you keep attracting negative people and events into your life. As you notice or observe this, you are emitting or offering a corresponding vibration. The universe responds to your vibration by matching it and giving you more of the same.
In this example, more of the same means that you experience more negative people and events in your life.
Keep in mind, this kind of force is a powerful and obedient universal law. It doesn't know whether you want more of something or not; whether it is good for you or not or whether it is wanted by you or not. It simply gives you more of the same.
If you are curious about what it is you are offering vibrationally in any area of your life, you need only look at the results you are getting in that area. It is always a perfect match. When you observe what you are attracting and you like it, celebrate. And in your celebration, you'll attract more of the same.
When you observe you are attracting something that you don't like, you can use this force deliberately to put a stop to it and change it into something that you DO want. The easiest way to do this is to ask yourself, "So, what DO I want?" and then keep your mind focused on this new clarity of desire.
Now you are becoming a deliberate offer-er about what you do want and the force will respond accordingly. As you continue to practice this, you'll soon be able to check into this area of your life and see the NEW results you are getting.
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